About Mei Part 2
Part 1This is about the things that Mei has done wrong to others. Evidence of her actions is backed by evidence to provide a clear picture. This is necessary as Mei’s actions caused significant harm to individuals.
This report is written to be as factual as possible. It seeks to avoid personal bias and sharing unnecessary private information.
Much of this information has been provided by multiple anonymous individuals who have known Mei, such as multiple former close friends. They have reached out willingly. Unless otherwise stated, the screenshots are from them.
Table of Contents
Summary
This is a simplified list that summarizes this entire report.
The Cheating Story:
- Randomly showed her bf that she had been cheating the whole time and then blocked him without any communication
- This occurred after asking him for large sums of money
- Her new boyfriend cheated on her mere weeks after.
Behaviours:
- Promotes eating disorders. Influenced her best friend to not eat for multiple days at a time and contributed her developing eating disorders. Took dangerous drugs to lose weight.
- Broke up with an ex-partner after developing a crush on a BTS member.
- Pro-ana. This is the promotion of behaviors related to the eating disorder anorexia nervosa. Members tend to endorse anorexia and/or bulimia as desirable.
- Stole someone from her best friend simply because her best friend was interested in that person (mimetic desire)
- Claims glow-up was from confidence and makeup but had surgery.
- Is racist.
- Fabricated stories about friends for content. Stated her friend begged to meet her, and that she threatened to kill herself.
- Generally immature. Cheated on bf and randomly sent him the proof then immediately blocked him everywhere.
- Asked for money from her bf, claiming she needed it to survive. This occurred while cheating
- Screenshots personal DMs to share with others.
Post-cheating Update
As mentioned in the last part, Mei cheated on her boyfriend and then randomly showed him that she had been cheating before blocking him everywhere with no communication. This occurred while she was asking for large sums of money from him.
Several weeks after she did this, her new boyfriend cheated on her.
Detailed Overview
This provides a more detailed overview and also includes evidence to support the claims.
1. Promotion of eating disorders
Mei Influenced her best friend to not eat for multiple days at a time and contributed her developing eating disorders. Took dangerous drugs to lose weight, including laxatives.
2. Spontaneous breakup after developing a crush on RM from BTS
Mei randomly broke up with her partner because she had a crush on RM from BTS. She also shared screenshots of DMs afterwards to her friends, disregarding privacy.
3. Pro-anorexia
This is the promotion of behaviors related to the eating disorder anorexia nervosa. Members tend to endorse anorexia and/or bulimia as desirable.
Pro-ana communities often glorify, encourage, and provide tips for weight loss through extremely unhealthy methods, such as the use of laxatives or diuretics. These practices can lead to serious physical and mental health problems, including malnutrition, bone density loss, organ failure, and increased anxiety and depression.
4. Stolen people from friends
This is self explanatory. Mei allegedly began dating someone solely due to the fact that her best friend was interested in. But this involves complex interpersonal dynamics and possibly underlying psychological issues. This could be mimetic desire.
Mimetic desire is a psychological concept suggesting that one’s desire for an object or person is often influenced by the desire of another person for the same object. This could be seen as a form of validation of that person’s desirability or an unconscious rivalry with her friend.
5. Cosmetic surgery
There’s nothing wrong with this. But it is a lie to claim to impressionable young girls that your face changed naturally instead of the real reason.
Source: Reddit
6. Racism
This is self explanatory. I don't have any more evidence of this because a lot of it was said in person rather than over text.
This message was from Mei
7. Fabricated stories about friends for content
8. Miscellaneous Compulsive Lies / Loss of Contact with Reality
Dump of info provided by her former friends: